Hello. It’s getting to the crazy time of the year – Christmas time – and, although my family is remarkably small (by modern Australian standards: I am an only child of only-child parents), it still seems to always be a busy time for me. Maybe because around that time everyone is desperately trying to “catch up” with all their friends before they get swallowed up by the days of festivities in their own clans.
It seems not-entirely-coincidental then, that my memory and general mental capacity seems to be receding around this time. The latest stupid thing I’ve done, which is relevant to this blog, is forgetting to pack the saddlepad and the girth, which I carefully washed, into the boot of my car before driving the one hour to see Becky. Now, the saddlepad I could’ve somehow improvised (maybe), but the girth – that I could find no substitute for: the “spare” girth I had in my car (Becky’s old girth) was about a foot too short.
What was a girl to do other than put on the protective vest and make use of Becky’s well-padded back to ride without a saddle? It was the first time I rode bareback in a long time, and never before on Becky, so I had no idea how it would go. However everything I learned in the last 3 years told me that the most likely recipe for success was to not make a Big Deal out of it, but to try and be as precise with my intentions and aids as if I was in the saddle, and not to just meander around on a lose rein just to “see how it goes”. Which meant that I had to try and relax as soon as possible and not expect Bad Things to happen. Mind you, despite my intentions, I did fully expect to be eating arena sand at some point, particularly since the last ride I had on Becky contained more bucking and otherwise "swearing" on Becky’s part than in a long while.
I should probably backtrack and explain that last bit. As far as I can tell, Becky’s problem was extreme crankiness at being locked up. Being in the arena put her both further away from her buddies (with whom she could still communicate across the fence from her locked yard), and at a different perspective to them. She really did not want to be in the arena. Every time she was asked to turn away from the sight of her friends, she drifted with her shoulder, and, in the end, when asked to trot, started to throw her lunges and bucks. Since Marina was with me, I felt more confident than I normally do, and with her insistence that, for once, the bucks were not caused by my own inaptitude, but by Becky’s lack of cooperation, there was nothing left to do but persevere. So, I kept asking of Becky everything I intended to ask, and attempted to ignore her jumps the best I could. Including asking her to canter, which she does not do graciously at the best of times.
In the end I surprised myself by how little the bucks affected me. The thought of them truly is more frightening than the reality. By her 10th or so attempt to lodge her protest, her efforts just seemed pathetic to me, and, funnily enough, she quit the jumping soon after.
So, with this lesson fresh in my mind, filling me with both confidence and trepidation, I climbed bareback onto the somewhat surprised, but quite calm Becky.
As anyone who has ridden bareback knows, the first reaction is surprise at how different everything feels: everything moves more and is unstable. But what surprised me more, as soon as I relaxed, how much easier it was for me to feel when Becky drifted off the line I put her own. Logically, it’s obvious that it would be easier to feel, without the barrier of the saddle between me and her body, but the reality is quite startling nonetheless: all of her movements seemed emphasized to me… the downside being that all my movements (and mistakes) were emphasized to her: from the uneven pressure in my thighs and calves, to possible slippage of my seat off-center. I really had to concentrate on everything I was doing so much more.
That concentration really took my mind of Becky’s possible misbehaving and, to be honest, that thought never seemed to cross Becky’s mind either. By the end I was finding that I could do everything we practiced at the lesson in the walk, including the shoulder-in. In fact we practiced that a lot - getting it smoothed out - which primarily required me to get out of Becky’s way with the reins, relax and maintain a consistent position.
It went so well that I was tempted to up the ante and try a trot, but another lesson learned over last 3 years floated to the surface: to not bite off more than I can chew straight away. This was a great success at a walk, and it could all be undone by going to a trot, especially since I remembered that I am not good at bareback trot at all. That is something that I should leave till next time, and the success of the session makes me think that there will be a next time.
Bareback riding is something that is interesting to play with, although I can see that doing too much of it may disrupt my seat in the saddle for now – since I am still establishing it, and since I may not be doing things entirely correctly while riding bareback. For example, keeping my feet in a proper "stirrup" position is extremely hard bareback and, probably, impractical, but it could affect my seat in the saddle. I have heard conflicting opinions on this count.
However it is a challenge and is fun to try, and it is certainly good to know that it is an option the next time I forget my gear.
